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EROS EVENTS CONSENT AND ETIQUETTE POLICY

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At EROS EVENTS, we bring together guests at all stages of their lifestyle journey - from the brand new to the seasoned. To ensure every attendee enjoys a safe, fun, and welcoming environment, we’ve established these universal guiding principles.

 

This policy must be read and understood before attending an EROS EVENT.

 

Our Ethos

EROS EVENTS are designed for the curious and wild, offering a space to explore and experience new adventures with like-minded individuals. At every event, the choice is yours: engage in play or simply soak in the atmosphere.

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We celebrate risk-takers, not rule-breakers. Guests who fail to comply with the following principles of respect, consent, and safety will be removed immediately and blacklisted from future events.

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Please note: EROS EVENTS are exclusively for guests aged 20 - 45.

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Dress to Impress and Feel Sexy

Each event is uniquely themed, and a high standard of appropriate, relevant attire is required. Dressing to impress isn’t just encouraged - it’s essential for participation.

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Privacy is Paramount

No phones or recording devices are allowed in play areas - no exceptions.

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We do provide designated spaces and specific times where photos can be taken, clearly marked to protect privacy. Photos that include others require the explicit consent of all parties involved. This ensures memories can be captured while maintaining trust within our community.

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Consent is Non-Negotiable

Consent is the cornerstone of everything we do.

  • Sexual consent is a freely given, enthusiastic agreement to engage in intimate activities.

  • Enthusiastic, ongoing consent means seeking a clear “yes” and never assuming consent. Always check in, even if consent was previously given.

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No means no. It’s a complete sentence and must be respected without question. Move on politely and avoid making anyone uncomfortable.

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Non-compliance with these rules will result in immediate removal, permanent blacklisting, and, if necessary, police involvement.

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A Note on Alcohol and Consent
Substances like alcohol can impair judgment and the ability to give informed consent. Be mindful when engaging with others, especially if they are under the influence.

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The Universal Consent Model: Traffic Lights

Use this simple framework to communicate and navigate consent:

  • Green: Keep going - I’m loving this.

  • Orange: Slow down or ease up - I’m nearing my limit.

  • Red: Stop immediately - I’ve reached my limit.

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Respect is Mandatory

Treat everyone with respect, including guests and staff. This includes:

  • Acknowledging and celebrating diversity in age, gender, orientation, background, body type, and ability.

  • Respecting personal space and seeking explicit consent before any form of touch.

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Voyeurism and Solo Play

Watching consensual play (voyeurism) is allowed, but it is essential to be mindful of disrupting others' experience. Avoid invading their space, making them aware of your presence, or causing distraction or discomfort. If you wish to watch more closely or engage in any way, you must ensure as best as possible that others are comfortable with your intentions. Most importantly, you must always ask for explicit consent before initiating any form of physical contact.

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Solo play, such as self-pleasure, is not permitted unless you have explicit consent from those you’re watching. Without consent, it is unacceptable and can make others uncomfortable.

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Safe Sex Practices

Safe sex is the default at our events, and it is the male's responsibility to use a condom without needing to be asked. Unprotected sex is only permitted if explicit consent has been requested and enthusiastically granted by all parties involved.

 

Latex condoms are provided, but guests should bring their own preferred condoms and barrier methods, such as dental dams, to ensure their comfort and safety.

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What Happens Here Stays Here

Confidentiality is key. Never share personal details, stories, or identities of other attendees outside the event. EROS EVENTS provide a judgment-free space for exploration, and this privacy is fundamental.

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Red Flags That Lead to Immediate Removal

  • Violating consent or disregarding boundaries.

  • Over-intoxication or coercing others into play while intoxicated.

  • Using disrespectful or inappropriate language or behavior.

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Expectations for Attendees

  • Prioritise hygiene, grooming, and self-presentation to feel and look your best.

  • Be aware of the effects of alcohol or substances on your decision-making and interactions.

  • Regularly check in with play partners to respect their boundaries.

  • Clearly communicate your own preferences and limits.

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Event Hosts Are Here for You

Hosts will welcome you on arrival and remain available throughout the event - we are recognisable by our LED wristbands. If you feel uncomfortable or notice someone else who might need support, seek out a host immediately. All concerns will be handled promptly and discreetly.

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Take Care and Have Fun

Respect yourself, others, and the venue. Set an intention for an unforgettable evening and create memories.

 

Stay wild, curious, and always respectful.


Eros ✨

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